Finding Balance

As a family caregiver, your primary focus is on caring for your elderly loved one. However, the reality is that you likely have other responsibilities to manage, such as work, family, and personal obligations. Finding balance between these responsibilities can be challenging, but it’s essential for your own well-being and the well-being of your loved one. In this blog post, we’ll discuss some strategies for managing caregiving responsibilities alongside other priorities.

Strategy 1: Prioritize and Plan

When you have multiple responsibilities to manage, it’s crucial to prioritize them and plan accordingly. Make a to-do list each day and rank the items by importance. Focus on completing the most important tasks first, and try not to get sidetracked by less urgent obligations. By prioritizing and planning, you can stay organized and ensure that nothing falls through the cracks.

Do you and your family want to be prepared when Mom/Dad declines so it doesn’t take everyone by surprise? With a proper plan, you can prevent the “SHOCK” that can come!

Our new book is aimed at addressing the basics of this phenomenon. Too many families experience this same “SHOCK” when they are shocked by their Loved Ones’ cognitive and/or physical decline.

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Strategy 2: Set Boundaries

One of the biggest challenges of being a caregiver is knowing when to say “no.” It’s important to set boundaries with your time and energy to avoid burnout. Determine what you can realistically take on, and don’t be afraid to delegate responsibilities to other family members or hire outside help if needed. Remember that you can’t be everything to everyone, and it’s okay to ask for help.

Strategy 3: Take Care of Yourself

Caring for someone else can be physically and emotionally draining. To avoid burnout and maintain balance, it’s essential to take care of yourself. Prioritize self-care activities, such as exercise, meditation, or time with friends and family. Make sure you’re getting enough sleep, eating well, and taking breaks when you need them. Remember, taking care of yourself is just as important as taking care of your loved one.

Strategy 4: Utilize Resources

As a family caregiver, you don’t have to do everything alone. There are numerous resources available to help you manage your caregiving responsibilities alongside other priorities. Consider reaching out to support groups or hiring a caregiver to assist with your loved one’s care. Look into respite care options to give yourself a break when needed. Remember, utilizing resources is not a sign of weakness but rather a sign of strength.


Finding balance as a family caregiver can be challenging, but it’s essential for your own well-being and the well-being of your loved one. By strategizing, prioritizing and planning, setting boundaries, taking care of yourself, and utilizing resources, you can manage your caregiving responsibilities alongside other priorities. Remember to be kind to yourself and take things one day at a time. You’ve got this!

Have You Been Shocked By A Loved One’s Decline?

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Ok. That might come off a little fast, but you can trust us. We want to help! We fully understand the stress and turmoil that you are facing as Family Caregiver – including personal experiences with burnout.

In our time as caregivers, we have amassed a wealth of knowledge that we desire to pass on. We understand the emotions involved while making necessary decisions. Likewise, we have met many professional caregivers, as well as other family members who were thrust as Family Caregiver. All caregivers have shared the same advice – Join a community! There is nothing more cleansing for our situation than knowing that we are not alone!

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Being an Adult Kid who is helping mom as she is declining can be a scary, frustrating and lonely place lacking stability. You feel like you are solely responsible for solving Mom’s problems while managing yours. Some occasional input and a community you can trust would help, especially when facing burnout! This is a way that all of us can be working together as caregivers!

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About the Author

Doug & his wife Cindy have not only helped hundreds of families with their estate planning and elder law needs over the years, but have personal experience as caregivers and advocates for their Loved Ones as well.

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