Finding Community and Belonging

As a widower in my 70s, I’ve found a new sense of community and belonging at the Assisted Living Community I now call home. After spending the past decade with my adult child who was my family caregiver, it was a difficult adjustment to move away from my family and into a new environment. However, I have come to cherish the companionship and activities that are available to me every day.

Good Times Ahead

My days at the community start with breakfast, where I often sit with my fellow residents and chat about our plans for the day. We talk about everything from the weather to the latest news, and it’s a great way to start the day off on a positive note. After breakfast, I usually attend some of the exercise classes that are offered. I’m not as mobile as I used to be, but I find that even light exercise helps keep me feeling healthy and energized.

In the afternoons, I often participate in some of the community’s recreational programs. Whether it’s playing cards, painting, or taking part in a book club, there’s always something going on that interests me. The staff at the community are wonderful, and they make sure that there’s always a variety of activities available for residents to enjoy.

Common Community

One thing I especially appreciate about my community is the emphasis on socializing and getting to know our neighbors. There are always opportunities to meet new people, and I’ve made some wonderful friendships during my time here. We often have potluck dinners and other social events, and I always look forward to these occasions.

Interacting with my neighbors has been one of the most rewarding aspects of living in an Assisted Living Community. It’s incredible how much we have in common and how easy it is to connect with each other. We share stories about our past, our families, and our interests, and we’ve created a supportive and welcoming community. There’s always someone to talk to, and it’s comforting to know that we’re all in this together.

Caring Community

One thing that I really appreciate about living here is that we all look out for each other’s well-being. We’ve formed close bonds, and we genuinely care about each other’s happiness and health. If someone is feeling under the weather, we’ll check in on them and make sure that they’re okay. If someone misses a meal, we’ll make sure they have something to eat. We all have different needs and abilities, but we work together to make sure that everyone is taken care of.

It’s also nice to have the reassurance that if I were to fall ill or have an emergency, there are staff members available to provide assistance. Knowing that there are people around who can help with any issues that may arise has given me and my neighbors a greater sense of security and peace of mind. All in all, living in this community has allowed me to form meaningful connections with others and has helped me feel like I am part of a larger family.

Challenge Accepted

I’m also grateful for the time I got to spend with my family in the previous season. My adult child was a wonderful caregiver, and I cherish the memories of our time together. However, I knew that it was becoming more difficult for them to manage both their own family’s needs and mine, and I wanted to make sure that I wasn’t a burden on them. Moving into the community has allowed me to maintain my independence while also having access to the support and care I need.

In conclusion, while the transition to assisted living was initially challenging, I now feel grateful for the opportunities and sense of belonging I have found here. The community offers so many programs and services that I never would have had access to if I had remained living with my family. I feel lucky to have made such great friends and to be a part of such a wonderful community.

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About the Author

Doug & his wife Cindy have not only helped hundreds of families with their estate planning and elder law needs over the years, but have personal experience as caregivers and advocates for their Loved Ones as well.

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