My Family Caregiver - Momma's Perspective

As an elderly woman, I have lived a long and fulfilling life. I have experienced many joys and sorrows, and I have faced my fair share of challenges. But as the years have gone by, my health has slowly deteriorated, and now I am no longer able to live alone. It’s a difficult reality to come to terms with, but I am grateful for my adult child who made the selfless decision to become my family caregiver.

Growing up, my child was always a ray of sunshine in my life. They were always eager to help with whatever tasks needed to be done, from household chores to caring for their younger siblings. They were a constant source of joy and love, and I knew from a young age that they were destined for great things.

As my child grew older, they began to pursue their own dreams and ambitions. I was proud of them, but I knew that one day I would need help. My health had been slowly declining, and I knew that I wouldn’t be able to manage on my own forever. But I never wanted to be a burden to my child. I always thought that I would be able to manage on my own until the end.

However, my child had other plans. They knew that I needed help, and they made the selfless decision to give up their own career in order to become my full-time caregiver. It was a difficult decision, and one that I know wasn’t easy for them to make. But they did it anyway, because they knew that it was what I needed.

Living Together with My Family Caregiver (Adult Child)

My Family Caregiver - Writing Momma's Perspective

Living with my child has been a tremendous blessing. As an elderly woman with declining health, I am no longer able to live independently. But thanks to my child’s selflessness and dedication, I am able to live comfortably in their home.

At first, I was hesitant to move in with my child. I didn’t want to be a burden, and I worried that I would be intruding on their life. But my child was insistent. They wanted me to be comfortable and safe, and they knew that I would be happier living with them than in a nursing home or assisted living facility.

Living with my child has allowed me to maintain a sense of independence and dignity that I wouldn’t have had if I were living in a care facility. My child has made accommodations for me to have my own space, and they encourage me to be as active and independent as possible.

Overcoming Challenges

Of course, there are challenges that come with living with anyone, even your own child. We have had to learn to adjust to each other’s habits and schedules, and there have been times when we have had disagreements. But overall, we have been able to maintain a positive and healthy relationship.

One of the things that I appreciate most about living with my child is the sense of companionship that I feel. I am no longer alone, and I have someone to talk to and spend time with. My child is always there to listen to me and offer words of encouragement, and they go out of their way to make sure that I am comfortable and happy.

A “Grand” Experience Overall

Living with my child has also allowed me to be closer to my grandchildren. They visit often, and I am able to watch them grow and thrive. Being able to be a part of their lives has brought me so much joy, and I am grateful for the opportunity to be with them.

Overall, living with my child has been a wonderful experience. I feel loved, supported, and cared for, and I know that I am in good hands. My child has made so many sacrifices for me, and I will always be grateful for their love and dedication.

Sacrificial, But Appreciated

Their sacrifice has made all the difference in my life. I no longer worry about falling or forgetting to take my medication, because I know that my child is always there to help me. They take care of everything, from cooking and cleaning to driving me to doctor’s appointments. They are always there to lend a listening ear or offer a comforting hug when I need it most.

As my health has continued to decline, my child has become even more important to me. They are my rock, my constant source of support and love. They never complain or ask for anything in return, even though I know that this isn’t the life that they imagined for themselves. But they do it anyway, because they love me.

As I reflect on my life, I realize how lucky I am to have such a caring and devoted child. They have given up so much to take care of me, and I am forever grateful. I know that it isn’t easy for them, and I worry about what will happen to them once I am gone. But I also know that they will be okay. They have shown me that they are strong and capable, and that they will always be there for me, no matter what.

Cherish and Support those who Love You!

To anyone who is in a similar situation, I urge you to cherish the love and support of those around you. Life can be difficult, but with the right people by your side, anything is possible. I am grateful for my child’s sacrifice and will always hold their love close to my heart. They are my hero, and I will always be proud of them.

We’ve been there & we understand.

In our time as caregivers, we have amassed a wealth of knowledge that we desire to pass on. We understand the emotions involved while making necessary decisions. Likewise, we have met many professional caregivers, as well as other family members who were thrust as Family Caregiver. All caregivers have shared the same advice – Join a community! There is nothing more cleansing for our situation than knowing that we are not alone!

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Thank You for being a Caregiver for Your Loved One – you are making a huge difference in their life!

About the Author

Doug & his wife Cindy have not only helped hundreds of families with their estate planning and elder law needs over the years, but have personal experience as caregivers and advocates for their Loved Ones as well.

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